Woman To Man

Woman is man's enemy, rival, and competitor. - JOHN. J. INGALLS.     You do but jest, sir, and you jest not well,     How could the hand be enemy of the arm,     Or seed and sod be rivals!    How could light     Feel jealousy of heat, plant of the leaf,     Or competition dwell 'twixt lip and smile?     Are we not part and parcel of yourselves?     Like strands in one great braid we entertwine     And make the perfect whole.    You could not be,     Unless we gave you birth; we are the soil     From which you sprang, yet sterile were that soil     Save as you planted.    (Though in the Book we read     One woman bore a child with no man's aid,     We find no record of a man-child born     Without the aid of woman!    Fatherhood     Is but a small achievement at the best,     While motherhood comprises heaven and hell.)     This ever-growing argument of sex     Is most unseemly, and devoid of sense.     Why waste more time in controversy, when     There is not time enough for all of love,     Our rightful occupation in this life?     Why prate of our defects, of where we fail,     When just the story of our worth would need     Eternity for telling, and our best     Development comes ever through your praise,     As through our praise you reach your highest self?     Oh! had you not been miser of your praise     And let our virtues be their own reward,     The old-established order of the world     Would never have been changed.    Small blame is ours     For this unsexing of ourselves, and worse.     Effeminising of the male.    We were     Content, sir, till you starved us, heart and brain.     All we have done, or wise, or otherwise,     Traced to the root, was done for love of you.     Let us taboo all vain comparisons,     And go forth as God meant us, hand in hand,     Companions, mates, and comrades evermore;     Two parts of one divinely ordained whole.