Henry Murray

Henry Murray, father of Elenor Murray,         Willing to tell the coroner Merival         All things about himself, about his wife,         All things as well about his daughter, touching         Her growth, and home life, if the coroner         Would hear him privately, save on such things         Strictly relating to the inquest, went         To Coroner Merival's office and thus spoke:         I was born here some sixty years ago,         Was nurtured in these common schools, too poor         To satisfy a longing for a college.         Felt myself gifted with some gifts of mind,         Some fineness of perception, thought, began         By twenty years to gather books and read         Some history, philosophy and science.         Had vague ambitions, analyzed perhaps,         To learn, be wise.             Now if you study me,         Look at my face, you'll see some trace of her:         My brow is hers, my mouth is hers, my eyes         Of lighter color are yet hers, this way         I have of laughing, as I saw inside         The matter deeper cause for laughter, hers.         And my jaw hers betokening a will,         Hers too, with chin that mitigates the will,         Shading to softness as hers did.          Our minds         Had something too in common: first this will         Which tempted fate to bend it, break it too -         I know not why in her case or in mine.         But when my will is bent I grow morose,         And when it's broken, I become a scourge         To all around me. Yes, I've visited         A life-time's wrath upon my wife. This daughter         When finding will subdued did not give up,         But took the will for something else - went on         By ways more prosperous; but alas! poor me!         I hold on when defeated, and lie down         When I am beaten, growling, ruminate         Upon my failure, think of nothing else.         But truth to tell, while we two were opposed,         This daughter and myself, while temperaments         Kept us at sword's points, while I saw in her         Traits of myself I liked not, also traits         Of the child's mother which I loathe, because         They have undone me, helped at least - no less         I see this child as better than myself,         And better than her mother, so admire.         Also I never trusted her; as a child         She would rush in relating lying wonders;         She feigned emotions, purposes and moods;         She was a little actress from the first,         And all her high resolves from first to last         Seemed but a robe with flowing sleeves in which         Her hands could hide some theft, some secret spoil.         When she was fourteen I could see in her         The passionate nature of her mother - well         You know a father's feelings when he sees         His daughter sensed by youths and lusty men         As one of the kind for capture. It's a theme         A father cannot talk of with his daughter.         He may say, "have a care," or "I forbid         Your strolling, riding with these boys at night."         But if the daughter stands and eyes the father,         As she did me with flaming eyes, then goes         Her way in secret, lies about her ways,         The father can but wonder, watch or brood,         Or switch her maybe, for I switched her once,         And found it did no good. I needed here         The mother's aid, but no, her mother saw         Herself in the girl, and said she knew the girl,         That I was too suspicious, out of touch         With a young girl's life, desire for happiness.         But when this Alma Bell affair came up,         And the school principal took pains to say         My daughter was too reckless of her name         In strolling and in riding, then my wife         Howled at me like a tigress: whip that man!         And as my daughter cried, and my wife screeched,         And called me coward if I let him go,         I rushed out to the street and finding him         Beat up his face, though almost dropping dead         From my exertion. Well, the aftermath         Was worse for me, not only by the talk,         But in my mind who saw no gratitude         In daughter or in mother for my deed.         The daughter from that day took up a course         More secret from my eyes, more variant         From any wish I had. We stood apart,         And grew apart thereafter. And from that day         My wife grew worse in temper, worse in nerves.         And though the people say she is my slave,         That I alone, of all who live, have conquered         Her spirit, still what despotism works         Free of reprisals, or of breakings-forth         When hands are here, not there?             But to return:         One takes up something for a livelihood,         And dreams he'll leave it later, when in time         His plans mature; and as he earns and lives,         With some time for his plans, hopes for the day         When he may step forth from his olden life         Into a new life made thus gradually,         I hoped to be a lawyer; but to live         I started as a drug clerk - look to-day         I own that little drug store - here I am         With drugs my years through, drugged myself at last.         And as a clerk I met my wife - went mad         About her, and I see in Elenor         Her mother's gift for making fools of men.         Why, I can scarce explain it, it's the flesh,         But then it's spirit too. Such flaming up         As came from flames like ours, but more of hers         Burned in the children. Yes, it might be well         For theorists in heredity to think         About the matter.         Well, but how about         The flames that make the children? For this woman         Too surely ruined me and sapped my life.         You hear much of the vampire, but what wife         Has not more chance for eating up a man?         She has him daily, has him fast for years.         A man can shake a vampire off, but how         To shake a wife off, when the children come,         And you must leave your place, your livelihood         To shake her off? And if you shake her off         Where do you go? what do you do? and how?         You see 'twas love that caught me, yet even so         I had resisted love had I not seen         A chance to rise through marriage. It was this:         You know, of course, my wife was Elenor Fouche,         Daughter of Arthur, thought to be so rich.         And I had hopes to patch my fortunes up         In this alliance, and become a lawyer.         What happened? Why they helped me not at all.         The children came, and I was chained to work,         To clothe and feed a family - all the while         My soul combusted with this aspiration,         And my good nature went to ashes, dampened         By secret tears which filtered through as lye.         Then finally, when my wife's father died,         After our marriage, twenty years or so,         His fortune came to nothing, all she got         Went to that little house we live in here -         It needs paint now, the porch has rotten boards -         And I was forced to see these children learn         What public schools could teach, and even as I         Left school half taught, and never went to college,         So did these children, saving Elenor,         Who saw two years of college - earned herself         By teaching. I choke up, just wait a minute!         What depths of calmness may a man come to         As father, who can think of this and be         Quiet about his heart? His heart will hurt,         Move, as it were, as a worm does with its pain.         And these days now, when trembling hands and head         Foretell decline, or worse, and make me think         As face to face with God, most earnestly,         Most eager for the truth, I wonder much         If I misjudged this daughter, canvass her         Myself to see if I had power to do         A better part by her. That is the way         This daughter has got in my soul. At first         She incubates in me as force unknown,         A spirit strange yet kindred, in my life;         And we are hostile and yet drawn together;         But when we're drawn together see and feel         These oppositions. Next she's in my life -         The second stage of the fever - as dislike,         Repugnance, and I wish her out of sight,         Out of my life. Then comes these ugly things,         Like Alma Bell, and rumors from away         Where she is teaching, and I put her out         Of life and thought the more, and wonder why         I fathered such a nature, whence it came.         Well, then the fever goes and I am weak,         Repentant it may be, delirious visions         That haunted me in fever plague me yet,         Even while I think them visions, nothing else.         So I grow pitiful and blame myself         For any part I had in her mistakes,         Sorrows and struggles, and I curse myself         That I was powerless to help her more -         Thus is she like a fever in my life.         Well, then the child grows up. But as a child         She dances, laughs and sings. At three years springs         For minutes and for minutes on her toes,         Like skipping rope, clapping her hands the while,         Her blue eyes twinkling, and her milk-white teeth         Glistening as she gurgled, shouted, laughed -         There never was such vital strength. I give         The pictures as my memory took them. Next         I see her looking side-ways at me, as if         She studied me, avoided me. The child         Is now ten years of age; and now I know         She smelled the rats that made the family hearth         A place for scampering; the horrors of our home.         She thought I brought the rats and kept them there,         These rats of bickering, anger, strife at home.         I knew she blamed me for her mother's moods         Who dragged about the kitchen day by day,         Sad faced and silent. So the upshot was         I had two enemies in the house, where once         I had but one, her mother. This made worse         The state for both, and worse the state for me.         And so it goes. Then next there's Alma Bell.         The following year my daughter finished up         The High School - and we sit - my wife and I         To see the exercises. And that summer Elenor,         Now eighteen and a woman, goes about -         I don't know what she does, sometimes I see         Some young man with her walking. But at home,         When I come in, the mother and the daughter         Put pedals on their talk, or change the theme -         I am shut out.          And in the fall I learn         From some outsider that she's teaching school,         And later people laugh and talk to me         About her feat of cowing certain Czechs,         Who broke her discipline in school.          Well, then         Two years go on that have no memory,         Just like sick days in bed when you lie there         And wake and sleep and wait. But finally         Her mother says: "To-night our Elenor         Leaves for Los Angeles." And then the mother,         To hide a sob, coughs nervously and leaves         The room where I am, for the kitchen - I         Sit with the evening paper, let it fall,         Then hold it up to read again and try         To say to self, "All right, what if she goes?"         The evening meal goes hard, for Elenor         Shines forth in kindness for me, talks and laughs -         I choke again.... She says to me if God         Had meant her for a better youth, then God         Had given her a better youth; she thanks me         For making High School possible to her,         And says all will be well - she will earn money         To go to college, that she will gain strength         By helping self - Just think, my friend, to hear         Such words, which in their kindness proved my failure,         When I had hoped, aspired, when I had given         My very soul, whether I liked this daughter,         Or liked her not, out of a generous hand,         Large hearted in its carelessness to give         A daughter of such mind a place in life,         And schooling for the place.         The meal was over.         We stood there silent; then her face grew wet         With tears, as wet as blossoms soaked with rain.         She took my hand and took her mother's hand,         And put our hands together - then she said:         "Be friends, be friends," and hurried from the room,         Her mother following. I stepped out-doors,         And stood what seemed a minute, entered again,         Walked to the front room, from the window saw         Elenor and her mother in the street.         The girl was gone! How could I follow them?         They had not asked me. So I stood and saw         The canvas telescope her mother carried.         They disappeared. I went back to my store,         Came back at nine o'clock, lighted a match         And saw my wife in bed, cloths on her eyes.         She turned her face to the wall, and didn't speak.         Next morning at the breakfast table she,         Complaining of a stiff arm, said: "that satchel         Was weighted down with books, my arm is stiff -         Elenor took French books to study French.         When she can pay a teacher, she will learn         How to pronounce the words, but by herself         She'll learn the grammar, how to read." She knew         How words like that would hurt!             I merely said:         "A happy home is better than knowing French,"         And went off to my store.             But coroner,         Search for the men in her life. When she came         Back from the West after three years, I knew         By look of her eyes that some one filled her life,         Had taken her life and body. What if I         Had failed as father in the way I failed?         And what if our home was not home to her?         She could have married - why not? If a girl         Can fascinate the men - I know she could -         She can have marriage, if she wants to marry.         Unless she runs to men already married,         And if she does so, don't you make her out         As loose and bad?         Well, what is more to tell?         She learned French, seemed to know the ways of the world,         Knew books, knew how to dress, gave evidence         Of contact with refinements; letters came         When she was here at intervals inscribed         In writing of elite ones, gifted maybe.         And she was filial and kind to me,         Most kind toward her mother, gave us things         At Christmas time. But still her way was such         That I as well had been familiar with her         As with some formal lady visiting.         She came back here before she went to France,         Staid two days with us. Once upon the porch         She turned to me and said: "I wish to honor         Mother and you by serving in the war.         You must rejoice that I can serve - you must!         But most I wish to honor America,         This land of promise, of fulfillment, too,         Which proves to all the world that men and women         Are born alike of God, at least that riches         And classes formed in pride have neither hearts,         Nor minds above the souls of those who work.         This land that reared me is my dearest love,         I go to serve the country."          Pardon me!         A man of my age in an hour like this         Must cry a little - wait till I can say         The last words that she said to me.         She put         Her arms about me, then she said to me:         "I am so glad my life and place in life         Were such that I was forced to rise or sink,         To strive or fail. God has been good to me,         Who gifted me with spirit to aspire."         I go back to my store now. In these days,         Last days, of course, I try to be a husband,         Try to be kinder to the mother of Elenor.         Death is not far off, and that makes us think.         We may be over soft or penitent;         Forgive where we should hate still, being soft;         And fade off from the wrongs, we brooded on;         And cease to care life has been badly lived,         From first to last. But none the less our vision         Seems clearer as we end this trivial life.         And so I try to be a kinder husband         To Elenor's mother.             So spoke Henry Murray         To Merival; a stenographer took down         His words, and they were written out and shown         The jury. Afterward the mother came         And told her story to the coroner,         Also reported, written out, and shown         The jury. But it happened thus with her:         She waited in the coroner's outer room         Until her husband told his story, then         With eyes upon the floor, passing her husband,         The two in silence passing, as he left         The coroner's office, spoke amid her sighs,         Her breath long drawn at intervals, looking down         The while she spoke: